My wish for you.

I recall when I was younger, secretly listening in on my mother's conversations with her girlfriends and thinking to myself, isn't it so special that they can all have different problems, but come together and listen to one another's pains. It didn't matter what they spoke about, it could be everything from a new hairstyle or a pending divorce, these women were each other's strength in times of need. And when came time to leave, they left giggling and planning their next get together.

​As I grew older, talking with my own friends, I realised that we too had this same sense relief when we got together. Discussing our own pains and problems, and finding solace in one another's company no matter what the topic. What was this bond that women share with one another... 

(I chose this photo, coz I look so  happy! oh and I LOVE food!) 

It doesn't matter if it is your best friend who you'd known all your life, or someone you had just met, women share this beautiful unspoken connection. We have been created to nurture and comfort one another and empathise with those around us. 

Somewhere overtime this love for one another has gotten lost. We now compete and strive to 'out do' one another. We look at each other as rivals, vying for attention and how we can be better than one another. What has happened to the compassion, the community and the coming together as women, to build one another up and support each other. Have we forgotten that we are stronger together? In all this, we have begun to criticise and condemn one another and ourselves. Never being good enough, pretty enough, popular enough, thin enough. We judge ourselves harshly and by the standards of others, we compare ourselves to other women in negative ways and are never satisfied with who we see in the mirror. It's time to put a stop to all that. Time for us to truly love ourselves again, time to accept our perfect imperfections and accept that we are ALL beautiful, Real Women. 

​For me, Real Women Revolution, is about self-love and self-acceptance, by loving and accepting ourselves, we are able to extend that love and acceptance to others. It is a sanctuary where all women can come together as a community again and share OUR unique stories. And by doing so, speak into other women's lives, in a positive and uplifting way. Be Brave, share your journey!

​I cannot wait to begin this journey with you. And don't forget...
Your story could be the key to someone else's prison - don't be afraid to share it!
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​Much love 
​Kim x ​